Why Family Law Mediation is the Smarter Choice
Family breakdowns are hard. Whether it’s divorce, parenting plans, or financial disputes, emotions run high—and dragging it through court only makes it worse. That’s where family law mediation steps in. It’s not just an alternative; it’s often the smarter, faster, and more dignified way to resolve conflict. What Is Family Law Mediation? Family law mediation […]
Mandatory Mediation in Civil Matters: A Necessary Reform or Resistance to Progress?
The South African civil justice system is at a critical juncture. In a recent Newzroom Afrika interview, Gauteng Judge President Dustin Mlambo highlighted alarming backlogs—some magistrate court cases are only being set down for hearing in 2031! This is not just an administrative issue—it’s a denial of timely justice. Judge President Mlambo also sounded the […]
Divorce Doesn’t Have to Be a War ⚖️💔 – Choose Mediation Instead
Divorce is never easy. But does it have to be a drawn-out, expensive battle in court? Absolutely not. At Toula Pleaner and Associates, we believe in mediation—a process that helps couples separate with dignity, fairness, and without destroying finances or family bonds. Why Mediation Over Litigation? 🔹 Less Stress, More Control – Courts make decisions […]
The Importance of a Skilled Family Law Mediator in Parenting Plans
Parenting Plans are one of the most critical aspects of family mediation. When parents separate or divorce, ensuring a structured, fair, and child-centred agreement is essential for the well-being of the children involved. However, reaching such agreements requires more than just good intentions—it demands the expertise of a professional, well-trained, and skilled family law mediator. […]
The Power of Mediation: A Transformative Approach to Dispute Resolution
Conflict is an inevitable part of human interaction, whether in business, family matters, or community engagements. However, how we choose to navigate and resolve these conflicts can make all the difference. Mediation is emerging as one of the most effective, compassionate, and forward-thinking approaches to dispute resolution. At TPAA, we recognize the profound impact that […]
Divorcing? Here’s Why Mediation Is the Smart Choice
Divorce can feel like a storm, swirling with emotions and uncertainty. It’s important to remember, though, that it doesn’t have to turn into a battlefield. Mediation stands out as a constructive option, allowing couples to approach their separation with a sense of dignity and collaboration rather than hostility. Think about it: in a traditional divorce, […]
When Mediation is Not the Answer: Understanding Its Limits in Cases of Abuse and Power Imbalance
At Toula Pleaner & Associates (TPAA), we advocate for mediation as an effective means of resolving disputes, fostering collaboration, and preserving relationships. However, mediation is not a universal solution. There are circumstances where mediation is inappropriate, particularly in cases of abuse, coercion, and extreme power imbalances. Recognizing these limitations is crucial to ensuring that conflict […]
Mediation in Divorce Negotiations: A Constructive Solution in South Africa
Divorce is a significant life event that often brings emotional challenges, financial strain, and multifaceted decisions. In South Africa, mediation is gaining recognition as a practical and collaborative alternative to traditional litigation. This article highlights the role of mediation in divorce negotiations, emphasizing its benefits for separating couples and the value it offers to family […]
What is Family Law Mediation? A Beginner’s Guide for South Africans
Family disputes can be emotionally draining, financially taxing, and time-consuming when handled through traditional court litigation. For South Africans looking for a more constructive way to resolve family conflicts, family law mediation is an increasingly popular alternative. This guide introduces family law mediation, its process, benefits, and the legal framework that governs it in South […]
Understanding Gender-Based Violence in South Africa: Why Mediation Fails Victims
South Africa faces a profound challenge with gender-based violence (GBV). Often described as a “second pandemic,” GBV is a pervasive issue that cuts across socioeconomic, racial, and cultural lines. It is a stark reflection of systemic inequality and deeply entrenched patriarchal norms. As we work towards solutions, it is crucial to understand why mediation, a […]
